hey guys i was wonderin what u all that about polygamy thats were u have more then one lover i dont believe in it but one of my friends does and ask me alot to be in one but i dont want to be in one i just want to be with that one person tell me your opions and beliefs on polygamy so i can tell them what most ppl think of it


plzzz give me your opion i need it

p.s im dating her and she wants to do it cause she is afraid if i die they want someone to fall back on so they wont be alone and they would kiss them and hold hands and stuff and i dont like that i dont want that i wnat one lover and thats it *Sigh it depresses me when they ask sometimes

I personally don't really prefer it, I'd rather share my life with one girl. Go with what you believe, thats the most advice I can give you.

Rising Flame has a point there. i would rather share my life with one woman too.

I don't think that is respectful. I would definatly not hang around another guy like that if I already had a boyfriend... that is pretty much cheating... I can not understand girls that are like that...

yea i agree i thought it was just like cheating also

Well I had already talked to you about it, but I'm for loving one person and one person only.


Do what you feel is right. Talk things out with her and work everything out...

i try to do that and it works but then she sometimes brings it up again she hasnt lately but im afraid she might

I'm sorry... I don't know what to say about it... Did you tell them that you think it is like cheating?

i think so if i didnt ill bring it up if she brings it up again

I agree with SBG.

we almost broke up a yesterday *sigh* things are getten rocky

If she really loved you she wouldn't push you against what you want. If your going out with someone why would you go out w/ some one else. SOund to me like she is just a playa






RAS

it just confusses me so much

Love is always confuzzing. There is no way aroound it. I think if she brings it up again say my final answer is no. If you cant except that forget me. I know you probably love but you need to stand your ground. If she loves you she will respect your decision. If she doesn't you'll get over her.

RAS

yea ive been thinken about doin that